Lost & Found: Update
Posted by Frugal on June 22nd, 2006
Here is from my previous post, and comments:
Yesterday, when my family went to Carl’s Junior to have a quick dinner, I found a wallet on the chair. I went thru the the slightly worn-out wallet, and couldn’t find a phone number that I could call. There was a driver license with a Latino photo, an ATM card, a credit card, a health insurance card….
I think here is what I will do:
- Call the bank first, and see if they’re willing to help out as being the third party middleman for contacts.
- Yes, JD, it’s actually physically close to my residence, about 5 minutes. I think that will be the second thing that I try. The only problem is that I may be there, but he may not be there, even if he lives there. In which case, I will leave my work phone number at the door.
- Yes, Blaine. I think contacting police is also a good idea.
- Annab, you’re a such considerate person. All of your friends and family are lucky to have you. Yeah, if I ever do that, I will definitely leave a receipt. Mailing a wallet in any case will be more trouble than physically delivering it myself.
At noon, I just left a message on this guy’s door (if he still lives there). Told him to meet me at Carl’s Junior at 8pm (but I didn’t tell him which one, he should know) or he could email me. I thought about this over. If I could, I will give him the wallet myself. I know if I go to police, for the reporting purpose, they will always jot down my name and my address. Now if this guy says that he has some $100 or more in his wallet, and now there is only some $30 left, won’t I become a “thief” with an address at the police? Now I can understand my wife’s position of simply mailing his wallet back. She told me that one of her friends actually got shouted at by returning a wallet with some $100, while the owner claimed that $10 is missing from the wallet. Well, I haven’t even counted exactly how much this guy has in his wallet. What if this guy told police that he is missing some $100 or even $1000 in cash? Who is going to prove my innocence except my wife? We’re talking about cash here which is pretty much non-traceable whether it exists or not in the first place. Obviously I don’t want to get into any trouble. I will just give this guy his wallet, and go away. I don’t even want him to see my license plate.
Here is the update: my family went to Carl’s Jr. to have another dinner. I waited until 8:10pm, and still saw no sign of this guy. He may not be living there, and didn’t get my message. If he got my message, no one would be late to a meeting for getting the wallet back.
I was going to go to a police station at 9:30pm, but it’s closed already. So this morning I went to a police station, and then the police jotted down my name, but didn’t ask for my phone number. So I think I don’t need to worry about any of the craps of false accusation. I’m just so glad that it’s out of my hands. Hopefully this poor guy gets his wallet soon.
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June 22nd, 2006 at 11:12 am
You’re a good person. Look at what happened to the people that didn’t return a cel phone that they found:
http://www.evanwashere.com/StolenSidekick
June 25th, 2006 at 5:14 pm
Dude, imho, you should have gone to the police right away & not tried to deal with it on your own. Thats what they are there for & why you pay taxes. Sometimes we may be guilty of thinking too much, possibly because of all the movies & tv we’ve seen, our imaginations can come up some pretty wild scenarios—bottom line, a guy’s wallet fell out at a burger joint, you found it–let the cops deal with the rest.
June 26th, 2006 at 1:30 pm
I guess it just wasn’t obvious to me that I should go to police. My first time too.